Higher test scores. A tip for parents.
Talking about his family, President Obama said, “And part of our job as parents — Michelle and my job — is not just to tell our kids what to do, but to start instilling in them a sense that they want to do it for themselves.”
I remember a high school student brought in by her parents. I asked her, “Do you know why you are here?” She immediately replied, “Yes. My parents want me to get higher SAT score. And I don’t want to work for it.”
Then the three of them leaned in. All eyes were on me…
Boosting your confidence: quick tip
A student, I’ll call her Sophie, came to me for coaching recently. She’s been having terrible problems with tests, saying she “freaks out” every time she takes an important exam.
I asked Sophie to explain what she meant by “freak out,” she described the intense static going on in her mind while she attempts to answer the questions. “I keep thinking, I don’t understand the question … I didn’t study the right things … I don’t remember anything … I’m not going to get this answer right … My scholarship won’t be renewed.” Her voice trailed off. She looked discouraged and dejected as she whispered, “It’s a mess.”
Rings a bell?
Are you taking the GED? Test prep tip….
A typical GED test taker faces challenges. They have hectic lives. They go through a lot. Just committing to a test prep class is very difficult. Many have jobs that require shift work, while others need to find child care.
Nieves Stiker, an educator involved in GED test prep classes in Pennsylvania said. “Some people come to us and feel very adequate within a couple of weeks while others, no matter how hard they study, it’s harder. Sometimes, it takes more than one try.”
In my performance model – the three-legged stool — focus is a critical leg. Without it you cannot achieve any measure of success. In other words, you will not get anywhere in life.
In regard to testing, focus is a noun and a verb. There is a goal of scoring well on the test, and there is work toward that goal.
Being focused is, ultimately and intimately, linked to a powerful source in you-your spirit. Think of your spirit as your power generator. It produces the energy that sparks every one of your achievements.
I hope GED test takers read Chapter Six: How to Stay Focused.
Here’s a pointer. While the goal of doing well in GED seems large and overwhelming to many, remember this: any goal can be broken down into small, manageable chunks. These are action steps. Action steps break up the process of achieving a goal into do-able increments. I use the simple SMART formula to make action steps work.
Specific. Your goal is precise and well defined.
Measurable. You can gauge whether you’ve reached it or not.
Adjustable. You can adapt or modify it if you need to.
Realistic. Your goals are attainable given your available time, energy and resources.
Time-based. Whatever goal you set is linked to the clock or calendar.
Whether you are a GED test-taker or teacher, I’d like to hear from you.
You might be interested in the article about the GED test-takers.
I’m on my way to New Orleans to speak at a conference for the Coalition for Essential Schools Conference, a group of progressive educators across the country. My talk is MAKING TESTING EMPOWERING. I speak on Friday. Keep you posted. In the meanwhile, GED’ers– keep empowering yourselves!
“Test Scores Down. Hope is Up.” How so?
Something about this story catches my attention. here’s the link.
http://www.wboc.com/Global/story.asp?S=11415560
Despite low test scores, some schools in Maryland have taken a different approach to making sure students learn. The teacher are making the difference. Through their tireless hard work they try a range of approaches, including games, and– noteworthy to me, “When students make a mistake their teaches tell them not to be embarrassed and work it through with either a partner or teacher.

I’ve written chapter in my book specifically for teachers. They need support for their great service. Teaching is arguably one of the most challenging professions in the world. It demands on-going attention to an ever-changing flux of variables – from an individual student’s cognitive and emotional growth to dynamic group factors, from highly charged cultural and political issues to rapid advances in technology and information processing. Keeping a finger on the pulse of all this is a full-time, virtually non-stop, excruciatingly difficult job, and yet that’s what teachers are expected to do. The dedicated teacher has to be wide-awake and ready to meet the challenges of an ever-evolving system.
I started writing this book for students. It is meant to equip students – high school, college, graduate – with the nine tools for being calm, confident and focused on any test – the qualities necessary for success in performance situations. Teachers started using the model too and reporting excellent results. Teachers who are calm, confident and focused are less stressed and more successful in their role in the classroom. They are also more exemplary as role models for their students.
By the way, I am giving a workshop 4-5 pm today at UCSF Mission Bay Campus. Free. Open to public. Both students and teachers are welcome. Come say hello and bring your questions. See post directly below (Nov 2) for details.
Test prep skills: public talk tomorrow
Speaking tomorrow on test taking and presentation skills. UCSF Mission Bay campus. Here's the description and the link. Please attend! PERFORMANCE: PUMP UP SUCCESS SKILLS II Tuesday, November 3, 4-5pm, N114 Genentech Hall MB First you prepare. Then you perform. Learning invaluable tools to access, process, and retrieve the right information in the right situation is key to success. You can perform according to your potential: capable, in charge, and successful. Dr. Bernstein's techniques add the final touch to intense preparation. "I am confident I will continue to use these techniques throughout my career," 3rd yr. grad student UCLA. Genentech Hall is on the map http://www.ucsf.edu/maps/ I'll have to check with Pam about parking and what is best that time of day. I think the BART and T line would be way too cumbersome.
Some nerves can help!
A blogger in the south wrote about having terrible test anxiety the night before her first exam of the semester. One thing that’s important to remember is that a certain amount of anxiety or nerves before a test is actually a good thing– it gets you ready, “primes the pump”, and gives you the energy to do your best. What happens, however, is that for most people this gets out of hand, and, because it goes unchecked, the anxiety grows and becomes unmanageable (hence, it’s hard to sleep, or think properly). This was shown in a now-famous graph called The Yerkes-Dodson Curve. (As soon as I can figure out how to insert the graph into the post I will– bear with me!). The point is: keep your stress at the right level. Use the tools in the book– particularly breathing, grounding and sensing.
I’ve trained students to raise SAT and GRE scores 100-300 points just by regularizing their breath through the course of the test.
Students receive THE WORKBOOK as a sponsored gift!
All 80 students of the Young Musician’s Program at the University of California Berkeley, received THE WORKBOOK FOR TEST SUCCESS as a gift from a very generous YMP Board member. YMP is an exceptional program for underserved youth, holding yearly auditions for musically talented and musically promising students . Though there is a strong focus on music, YMP is a college-track program– with 100% success rate of its students getting into schools — including Juilliard and Oberlin– many at full scholarship. The dynamic director of the program, Daisy Newman, invited Dr. Bernstein to work with the students on issues related to performance (anxiety; dynamism; preparation; academic issues), and the results have been palpable. The students were thrilled to receive the book. Said one, “This book is so great. It’s just like having Dr. B in my house!” We are seeking sponsorships like the one at YMP– to get the book into the hands of the students, parents and teachers who can really use it. If you are a board member or a philanthropist, please contact us to discuss your group and how we can work together.
Welcome to TEST SUCCESS!
Hello!
If you are stressed out over tests, you have come to the right place. If you want higher test scores, you will find the path here. If you’re a student, a teacher, a school administrator or an educational policy maker, and want to improve test results, read on. THE WORKBOOK FOR TEST SUCCESS: How to Be Calm, Confident and Focused on Any Test is for you.
We are thrilled to be online and sharing the THE WORKBOOK FOR TEST SUCCESS. Advance copies of the book are already selling quickly! Generous, thoughtful sponsors are providing copies, free, to University of the Pacific in San Francisco; the Young Musicians Program at Cal Berkeley; and to Etgar, a summer traveling program for teens. Corporate and philanthropic sponsors are gifting the book to schools, parent teacher associations and to youth development groups. Two wonderful teen summer interns are employed (under the stimulus package!) to work on the book launch. Great things to come! And please be patient with us. With all the interest in the book we want to get this blog/website up and running.
Stay tuned!


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